Why Are People Leaving the United Methodist Church?

By Milo Jones | Posted June 10, 2024

Experts are saying it’s the largest denominational split since the Civil War.

Since 2019, more than 7,600 congregations in the United Methodist Church (UMC) have received approval to leave the denomination. That’s about a quarter of all Methodist churches in the nation. And in West Africa, the Ivory Coast Conference, one of the largest regional conferences with about 1 million members, has just voted to leave the UMC. 

Many departing congregations have joined the Global Methodist Church (GMC), a more conservative body launched in 2022.

So why the schism? In the words of the Ivory Coast Conference’s departing declaration, “The new United Methodist Church has preferred to sacrifice its honorability and integrity to honor the LGBT [agenda].”


A Divisive History

According to a PBS NewsHour correspondent, “We’re basically seeing the conclusion of what’s been decades’ worth of debate and discussion in the United Methodist Church over sexuality.”

In 1972, a clause against homosexuality was added to the church’s Book of Discipline, which stated, “The practice of homosexuality is incompatible with Christian teaching. Therefore self-avowed practicing homosexuals are not to be certified as candidates, ordained as ministers, or appointed to serve in The United Methodist Church.”

Yet in the decades that followed, many church leaders, yielding to the growing liberal activism, refused to uphold the Book of Discipline. This led to a special legislative gathering in 2019 in which “a coalition of conservatives in the U.S. and overseas, particularly from fast-growing African churches,” “voted to strengthen longstanding bans on same-sex marriage and LGBTQ ordination.” American churches that were unwilling to follow the Book of Discipline were given five years to exit the UMC under reasonable terms. However, in a strange reversal, it was the conservatives who ended up leaving because of “the denomination’s failure to discipline those defying church law.”

Fast forward to May 2, 2024. In a vote of 523 to 161, the UMC General Conference opted to remove the clause against homosexuality from their Book of Discipline. Delegates also approved the statement that “marriage [is] a sacred, lifelong covenant that brings two people of faith (… two adult persons of consenting age) into a union of one another and into deeper relationship with God and the religious community” (emphasis added).

The United Methodist Church can now—officially—conduct same-sex weddings, ordinate noncelibate homosexuals, and fund LGBTQ+ advocacy groups. 


The Wesleyan Tradition?

Around the year 1740, an Anglican preacher named John Wesley began forming Methodist societies—called such because of their “methodical” approach to holy living. Wesley’s original goal for Methodism was to reform the Church of England, but theological differences eventually led to a separate denomination. 

Wesley confronted the antinomianism of his day, which taught that Christ’s death had abolished not only the sacrificial laws but the Ten Commandments, freeing believers from the bondage of obedience. In a sermon on Matthew 5:17–20, the preacher explained that “the moral law, contained in the Ten Commandments, and enforced by the prophets, He did not take away. … Every part of this law must remain in force, upon all mankind, and in all ages.” 

Despite the UMC’s support for gay marriage, the denomination still claims to be carrying Wesley’s torch. Here’s what their Book of Discipline says about the laws in the Old Testament: “The Old Testament is not contrary to the New. … Although the law given from God by Moses as touching ceremonies and rites doth not bind Christians, … no Christian whatsoever is free from the obedience of the commandments which are called moral” (Article VI). 

So, is the law addressing homosexual relations (Leviticus 20:13) no longer “moral” or connected to the seventh commandment? Those leaving the UMC disagree with this new interpretation—and so would John Wesley!


Leaving Babylon

The mass exodus from a church that has a “Queer Clergy Caucus” has caused many Christians to think about the angel’s cry in Revelation 18, “Babylon the great is fallen” (v. 2.), followed by another cry, “Come out of her, my people, lest you share in her sins, and lest you receive of her plagues” (v. 4). 

God’s people came out of literal Babylon after it was conquered by Cyrus the Great in 539 BC. But in Revelation, Babylon is not literal but symbolic of a religious power whose fall is announced in the last days.

In chapter 17, Babylon coincides with “THE MOTHER OF HARLOTS” (v. 5). Just as a pure woman symbolizes a faithful church (12:1–6), so a harlot stands for an unfaithful church. Who is this unfaithful woman? The apostle John doesn’t leave us guessing. For one, she is “arrayed in purple and scarlet” (17:4)—the colors that Catholic bishops and cardinals have worn for hundreds of years. During the Dark Ages, it was the papal church that became “drunk with the blood of the saints and … martyrs of Jesus” (v. 6).

But this “Mother Church,” as she calls herself, has harlot daughters. Who are they, if not the denominations that descended from her? They were not born harlots, for they once carried the torch of reform. But today, most of the Protestant churches are no longer “protesting” the false teachings of Mother Babylon. 

Moreover, the term Babylon means “confusion” (Genesis 11:9)—a suitable description for this collection of fallen churches with their conflicting doctrines!

Out of this confusion God is calling His people. Those heeding the call will “keep the commandments of God” (Revelation 14:12)—all ten of them. Those who have left a church that doesn’t keep the seventh have taken a big step in the right direction.

To learn more about the “THE MOTHER OF HARLOTS” in Revelation 17, check out our study guide “The Other Woman.”

Milo Jones
Milo Jones is a writer and editor for Amazing Facts International and lives in College Place, WA.
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Jp
It’s to bad that this is not a true picture of why the split occurred. The truth is that a group of ultra conservative United Methodists wanted to have everything their way and a group of ultra Liberals wanted to have everything their way.

Jesus Christ taught us about respecting and loving each other, no matter what our differences, and for many years, the United Methodist Church accepted everyone until these two fringe groups pushed the church apart.

It is Sad that the ultra conservative group instead of saying they didn’t care for people who were gay instead, made up other issues to cover their feelings. Shame on this Group. Likewise, the altered liberals refused to compromise and to be loving and understanding of how people can have a difference of opinion and used the concept that the church would grow if the church became more liberal shame on their lies.

The real truth is this the churches that were big or small, and lived on the margin of being able to financially afford pastors to be able to serve the needs of the congregation in the community in which they were located are now closing their doors. The word of God is not being spread due to these closures and groups from both sides of the aisle of theological belief should be ashamed of themselves. Those of us who remain are left to pick up the pieces and do not want to be associated with either of these groups.

The best solution that should’ve happened is that the ultra conservatives and the ultra liberals should have left the United Methodist Church and formed two new denominations and let the rest of us be in peace to worship God and to build the kingdom of God here on earth. Those of us in this group pray that God will in God’s time restore all faiths into one true faith that is only focused on building disciples in the name of Jesus Christ.
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David
NUMBER 1. I am a proud A GAY MAN AND A CHURCH SHOULD NOT be PANTED LIKE A CLUB. OK
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Barbara
It’s seems clear we are in the era of Revelation. Judgment is at hand. Without being defeatist, I am of the opinion that nothing is going to bring us back from the brink. Chaos and the destruction of any moral code is here. The good news is that those turning away from these false teachers and “leaders” will receive their due. Those who buy into the narrative will also receive their due. The difference between the “due” is the difference between death and eternal life. Choose wisely.
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Gary C
LGBTQ is the most visible issue and grabs the headlines. It is the tip of the iceberg. And like an iceberg, you don't see most of it. I will say up front that the reason for the split is that the Bishops have not been fulfilling their responsibility. If they had been doing their job 50 years ago, we wouldn't even having this conversation. When the Catholics were dealing with abuse with boys, my thought was that they were more concerned with the shepherds that the sheep. Now it seems that the same thing has happened in the UMC. Pastors and Bishops have been in open rebellion to the Discipline for years now. It is not just the gay issue. Pastors preach that a belief in the Trinity is not required for salvation. Belief in Jesus is not required. Communion has been replaced with a celebration of milk and honey. The list goes on. Pastors are not held accountable for blasphemous. There are procedures for disciplining pastors and bishops but the bishops control the process. They are more concerned about protecting the shepherds than the sheep. So like the tip of the iceberg, the gay issue is just the most visible part of something much bigger. I wish there was more focus on the open rebellion of the clergy to not only church Discipline but also to rebellion to Scripture. The blind are leading the blind and making their followers more fit for hell then they are themselves.
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Trena
It doesn’t matter what man says God’s Word says homosexuality is a sin and man condoning it doesn’t mean God will over look it. There will be a lot of people in the church who will have blood on their hands for not standing up for the truth. Money won’t buy your at into Heaven.
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Rexall
I'm not from the United Methodist, but for many years I was a part of a Free Methodist Church. I left for the same reason. The pastor was preaching acceptance of homosexuality and that it was perfectly okay to be gay. As this is in direct opposition to what the Bible actually teaches, My wife and I left the church. This garbage is truly disgusting and must be brought to an end.
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Mark
Very accurate. I was a United Methodist elder for 27 years until I left two years ago and I am now pastoring an independent church in Michigan. Could not be happier and I am no longer embarrassed to tell someone about my church!
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Ethel
Amen
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Leslie Jo
There are many who are leaving my faith, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, over the LGBTQ issues as well. But many of our congregants are leaving because the church takes such a strong stand on traditional marriage between a man and a woman. Social norms are taking the place of God’s commandments so many are leaving the faiths of their fathers.
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Jwb
John Bingham I find this issue one of decisiveness among Christians in general. This issue nor many others does not change my theological position or make me think the “church” should divide its membership into different churches. Believe, have faith in Jesus Christ /God and let the judgement of sin, whichever it be, judged by God. In a recent UMC Annual Conference a motion to apologize to anyone who was hurt by the discipline language and even disciplinary action. What a range of positions I heard. In the end the conference formed a task force to review all hurt parties and to better understand exactly what that may be. Can you sense the stupidity of delay? While better understanding is fine, apologies require urgency to meet the needs of those impacted. The idea was to bring healing, but this was a missed opportunity to bring unity in purpose and move directly to ministry and more expedient resolution. If this is what it takes for the church to figure this out, many of our members will quietly leave out the back door because we continue to focus on this issue rather than strengthening our faith in God, sharing the good news and focusing on putting our faith into action. So the split by conservatives may have started, this shows there remain a significant number of conservatives in many annual conferences. Not all conservatives left the UMC.
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Pat
Why do you think they are leaving? It should be abundantly obvious.
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TJ
And yet you violate the fourth Commandment every week. “Remember the sabbath to keep it holy - six days you shall work, but the seventh you shall rest.” Do you honor the sabbath? You may not work nor your servant nor your animals. You can’t choose which of these to follow and not to follow, you must obey the whole law or you’ve broken the whole law as Jesus said. If you want to adhere to the law, you better be all in.
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Dan S
But when is the Sabbath? Is it Sunday or Saturday?
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Darlene Brooks
It depends on what you mean by “resting “ on the sabbath. Jesus made it a point to heal people on the day of rest
The Pharisees condemned Jesus and thought healing was work. They had added about 39 rules to restrict what they considered to be “work “
They also condemned the disciples for eating grain that they picked off the stalks and “threshed” in their hands
The Sabbath is a day of restoration and healing for us. It is a time for reflection and prayer. Also reconnection. The sabbath is a gift of freedom
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Charlie
Depends on your interpretation of what is actually required of the Sabbath. Jesus answered the question by saying 'the Sabbath is made for man, not man for the Sabbath'.
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KC Wireman
The RPCNA observes the fourth commandment. I left the UMC in 2020 where I witnessed the debauchery and apostasy. The Reformed Presbyterian Church has been a spiritual eye opener for me and many other seekers of truth.
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Bob Miner - bobminer@earthlink.net
Robert E. Miner - Sins of finial of life, murder, rape, brutality, queer sexual perversion, greed, theft, hatred, brutality, arrogant perverted pride as being normal, and the like; has twisted the truth of God’s Word and is being used to drive people deeper into a dark, and future intolerable state of hell and eternal torment, from which the only escape is through belief in Jesus Christ as God’s Son and One and only Savour for this generation. The invitation is repent and believe the Gospel and put your faith in the Lord, Christ Jesus for the forgiveness of your sins and for His gift of eternal life, bringing peace, restoration, joy and eternal life! Respectfully submitted, Robert E. Miner, Cropseyville, New York.
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Bob
Happy to remain active in an inclusive , vibrant United Methodist church; best wishes to those who choose to worship and serve elsewhere.
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Marjie
Thank you for calling this out, our God made it very clear that these actions are an abomination. We are called to identify sin and be saved “from” our sins, not expect to be saved “in” our sin.
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Darlene Brooks
I left the Methodist church 2weeks ago. It was difficult because about 13 years ago this is where I found God and became a Christian.
I knew nothing about the Bible but when I started studying it on my own I realized that something was wrong. I saw red flags everywhere. I thought I could just ignore what they were saying that contradicted the Bible but the pastor said a lot of the Bible was wrong. He changed the Lord’s Prayer to include “our mother “ who art in heaven “
It bike my heart to leave the people, pastor and church. There were attempts to stop me from spreading anything that went against their narrative
Now I follow you and go to studies that teach the Bible. I’m finally free!
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Pat
I feel the same as you. It breaks my heart. I too plan to leave the Methodist denomination because I am fully aware of the changes to the disciplines that clearly are not of God. I cannot condone and contribute to false teachings. I feel badly for the elderly members who have given their lifelong service, attendance and support and may not even be aware. It would be a hard choice to leave the only church they’ve known. I know what I believe, God’s word is the final word on every part of life and I can’t remain knowing children will be taught these false doctrines. Heartbreaking❣️
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Barbara
Your comment suddenly made me think how difficult it must have been for 1st century Jews to walk out of their temple, put centuries of tradition and beliefs behind them and follow Jesus. I think it comes down to just doing what is right and moving on.
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Tony M.
God bless you!

"Jesus therefore said to those Jews that had believed him, If ye abide in my word, |then| are ye truly my disciples; and
ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free." [John 8:31,32]
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