9 Bible Promises for When You're Feeling Lonely

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Are you feeling lonely? It’s strange how, at times, one can be surrounded by people and still feel very alone. In fact, you can even feel lonely among people who love you; they may not understand what you’re going through, at least not fully. But there is Someone who understands your heart completely. He knows your thoughts, feels your every emotion, and longs for you to know He’s with you and for you. Take comfort in His promises …


1. “I will pray the Father, and He will give you another Helper, that He may abide with you forever—the Spirit of truth … I will not leave you orphans; I will come to you” (John 14:16–18). You never need to feel abandoned because Jesus promises to be right there with you; He will even be, through His Holy Spirit, in you.


2. “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble” (Psalm 46:1). So many troubling situations in life can leave you feeling alone and insecure, but God is a “very present help” at all times.


3. “When my father and my mother forsake me, then the Lord will take care of me” (Psalm 27:10). Even when those closest to your heart turn away, the God of love will remain with you, safeguard you, and tenderly look after your needs.


4. “I am with you always, even to the end of the age” (Matthew 28:20). As long as you desire His presence, there will never come a time when God will leave you to fend for yourself.


5. “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds” (Psalm 147:3). Sometimes it’s a broken heart that leaves you feeling lonely, but the Lord promises to heal the wounds and hold you close to Him.

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6. “ ‘For the mountains shall depart and the hills be removed, but My kindness shall not depart from you, nor shall My covenant of peace be removed,’ says the Lord” (Isaiah 54:10). God is so faithful that you can depend on His care and attention even if the mountains crumble around you!


7. “In my distress I called upon the Lord, and cried out to my God; He heard my voice from His temple, and my cry came before Him, even to His ears” (Psalm 18:6). You never have to feel that no one hears you, because your heavenly Father always hears and understands.


8. “For I, the Lord your God, will hold your right hand, saying to you, ‘Fear not, I will help you’ ” (Isaiah 41:13).
Loneliness will vanish when you realize the Almighty God is holding your hand!


9. “Be strong and of good courage … for the Lord your God, He is the One who goes with you. He will not leave you nor forsake you” (Deuteronomy 31:6). The Creator of the universe is on your team, and He will never leave you!


Be encouraged in the loving presence of your Savior, knowing He will always stand beside you. And why not share this list with someone you love?

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Ghost 2
I am in perpetual loneliness. I feel REALLY bad because I know all I have to do is rely on God, and He will provide for me. I also know that even though I don't see or hear Him, that doesn't mean he isn't standing beside me. However--again I feel TERRIBLE about this--I long for some friendly companionship with someone. I want some friends who will care to talk/text/call, or just hang out with me. I want to go and do fun things while I am still young and won't be too busy with a job/family--now that just sounds selfish. I have no one, no one who will give me time a day to ask me to do something or stop long enough to see me hurting badly. And that is the real killer. I go to my college classes and see people surrounded by their "friends" in some conversation, people planning social events, or just making plans to hang out later. There I am, just going through life like a GHOST who no one cares about. No one will even think that I am just slowly dying inside. Great!! Now, I am dealing with the sin of jealousy and coveting. I understand that Jesus Christ is the only friend I ever need. He is someone who will always be there for me when no one else is, and He is someone who will always understand me. And that is my problem. My heart desires one thing, and its desire is so strong that I can't fight it without giving in to looking at people and coveting their relationships. Now, I feel like I am venting at this point. I should just man up and screw my feelings. I pray--though I should pray more about it--that God comforts me when I feel lonely, but I don't feel him when I feel like I should. I hate the fact that I am the type of person who will drop anything that I am doing or holding to help anyone. I want to help, serve, and protect people, but no one is there for me. I sometimes feel this darkness come over me, something I can only describe as my heart and mind hardening and growing resentful. This feeling makes me want to adopt this dark persona, something Satin wants me to take on. But I can't! I must stay strong and know that God is there beside me even when my heart--something the bible says not to trust--desires friends. Oh, how I am lost in this World surrounded by so much love and friendship.
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AuntieM
Sometimes we are so lonely that even when we are with people, we feel isolated. We have to pray and trust God and have to try to take steps to get out of our heads and interact with others. Help someone, give your time to others in need. If you don't feel that you can talk with people, volunteer at an animal shelter. Sometimes those we love shun us, things happen to us through no fault of our own or even as a result of our mistakes, but where there is God, there is hope. You were all alone but now posting to this site, it shows you that you are not really alone. The terrible feelings wont go away right away, sometimes you just have to take baby steps.
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Bob
I just don't understand how Doug Batchelor can do SO much good and then turn right around and criticize the "Universal Church of Jesus Christ" and the descendant of St. Peter.
I have been fundamentalist, Baptized Church of Christ, Agnostic, Atheist, all of these, and now a confirmed Roman Catholic for many years.
All "Religions" are what you make them out to be in your heart. I love Jesus with all of my heart but I will NOT condemn a Buddist, Hindu, Muslim, or any religion on planet Earth.
God bless all and may peace be with all.
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Jackdiaz
I’m Jack Diaz, I’m 20 years old and still figuring out my place on this earth. Ive been feeling alone, my prayers help but the overwhelming pain in my heart continues every day. Im broken, I miss my family, I miss my happiness, I miss being loved, some days I don’t want to continue, just end it all the pain I feel, the empty void in my heart, I’m struggling to keep happy struggling mentally, financially, emotionally, I look so happy from the outside but in the inside my world is crashing. I want to achieve things but everything seems so blurry. I need a miracle. I need you God. I’m tired. Help me
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AuntieM
Dear Jack, you are so young, believe it or not, there are wonderful days ahead of you. Don't give up. You will feel happy again. You have prayed and called out to God - be honest, tell him what you feel and then pray for what you want and pray for the Lord's guidance in all you do. He will carry you through this dry patch. Trust Him and He will be with you and you will make it through. He has plans for you, plans for a future and a hope. It will come soon. Hang on. Trust and know that you are loved.
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David
O Lord comfort those who turn to you and call upon your name. You are the creator of the heavens and the earth and knew each of our names before we were born be with us in our times of need. In Jesus name we pray , Amen.
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Bob
Well Jack I feel the same way you do some times and I think everyone feels the same way on occasion. You're 20 years old and I'm 80 years old so I have felt your way many times for a long time. Willie Nelson said "I didn't come here on my own and I ain't leaven here on my own"
So I think that's GOOD philosophy. God put you here and God will take you away.
"My world is crashing" True, science says planet Earth will crash into the Sun but you and I won't be around to worry about it.
As for me, I've been a widower now for several years. I was married for 54 years and cry over it every day since she died but all I need now is one good honky tonk angel to turn my life around. That's all up to Jesus. I may be alone for the rest of my days, I don't know.
I just talk to Jesus a lot. Don't let any preacher tell you that you can't talk to Momma Mary and any of the Saint's either!
God is NOT a jealous kind of God as some preachers claim.
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Josephine
I am not sure what happened and why you are feeling so alone. It will be good if you could talk to someone maybe a counselor to rule out depression etc. The therapist can also help you to see your situation from a different angle and help you through this challenging times. My prayers are with you. God Bless.
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KP
I am here crying alone and lonely. I looked up bible verses about loneliness and it reminded me the Lord is with me all the time. It's just that when this feeling of loneliness hits, it's hit really hard, but I will continue to read bible verses to get me through it. Thank you Jesus for being with me.
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Cassidy yearta
Cassidy Cheyenne Yearta is my name.
" I needed this but my mom and dad would never forsake me, my husband will never break my heart and my children will never be orphans."
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Alvin
hello everyone here i am happy to be here
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Bt
I think im going to quit nursing school ive tried everything and im tired i still get the lowest in class and even my parents think im a dissaponitment
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JesusCares1
Dear Bt,
Please pray before making this decision. Im sorry to hear that you're not getting the support you would like. Remember, if God has called you to this career, He has someone He wants you to reach for Him. You are not a disappointment in God's eyes and He loves you.
Everyday, please read Isaiah 51:1-16. He will help you
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davis
Thank you for this web site. I was sitting here I'm so lonely so I googled lonely and behold bible paragraphs I can read.
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KirkR
My wife left me three years ago after 25 years of marriage. I'm so in love with her but she wants nothing to do with me. I'm so lonely without my best friend.
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Brian
Try to lean more on Jesus. My wife wants a divorce after 34 years of marriage. My adult daughter's wont even talk or see me, its been almost 3 years, no contact. I was not the perfect christian husband, was sorry and would do anything to get her and my family back. I pray every day for God's restoration in your lives. I too feel your hurt and pain. Please wait on God for peace and an answer to your situation. Know this, As a believet in Christ, you are never alone.
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RBGP
Thank you so much for the response and I can read it and be able to share as well. May God Bless you and the ministry.
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Owyn
Im directing my focus inward with faith in mind and I still feel unbearably lonely. Its making me question my faith, because Jesus is not with me. I would feel it.
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Do not feel alone!  Most Christians have moments where they see themselves and feel this way.  Remember, our relationship with Christ is based on what we know of Him, not what we feel.  When we become overwhelmed, the devil moves in and it is his deceptions that cause us to lose focus and proper balance in our Christian walk.  Daily, devote your life and time to Christ, seek Him every day in the study of His word and refocus your energies on Him.  Matthew 6:33 If you would like to speak to someone, you can call our prayer line at 1 (800) 835-6906.
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Loribugu22
Thank you
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Del1961
I’m so lonely, feeling sad. I know the lord is with me. This loneliness is so hard on me. I hate being alone. I’m praying to God to give me the strength to endure this lonely.
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Shamblin
I am lonely, too. We are suffering together in this world❤️ someone out there is lonely, too. You are not alone!
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RayPik
I am sometimes feeling lonely too. On the other hand, sometimes I am glad d to be alone.
Why not get to know each other to support others.
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We are sorry to hear that you have been feeling hurt and lonely.  We know that Jesus understands what you are going through as He often felt lonely too.  Even though He was surrounded by people, those closest to Him did not understand His purpose.  Remember when He was in the garden and His disciples wouldn’t stay awake to pray for Him?  We’re sure that was one of His loneliest moments! Here is one of our favorite quotations that has always been of encouragement in difficult times:

“Worry is blind, and cannot discern the future; but Jesus sees the end from the beginning. In every difficulty He has His way prepared to bring relief. Our heavenly Father has a thousand ways to provide for us, of which we know nothing. Those who accept the one principle of making the service and honor of God supreme will find perplexities vanish, and a plain path before their feet.”  {Desire of Ages, p. 330}
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Mel1234
I pray to you God & Lord Jesus Christ , to continue to give me strength to continue with my life. It doesn’t feel easy at all atm . But I have faith that I am here for a purpose. I just need to try and trust the process. Thank you God for this Page , & I that others may be healed & happy . X
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K.R.
I ask that u please pray for me in a time of extreme abuse.

Kr
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Ted Hadden
My family and the va mental health put me in a assisted living place for the rest of my life because i have done them wrong in the past and let me die here at a assistant living place which there is nothing wrong with me. I tried to reach out to my family to make amendments and try to convince them that im not a failure but im just talking to a brick wall. No hope for me. I guess i will die here. Ted Hadden
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Shamblin
Bless those around you. I know as a veteran you can bring others happiness of knowing you.
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Edmonfd
Psalm 27: 9,10. :9 Hide not thy face far from me; put not thy servant away in anger: thou hast been my help; leave me not, neither forsake me, O God of my salvation.
:10 When my father and my mother forsake me, then the LORD will take me up.

I know what you are going through. Just praise the Lord Ted! His coming is sooner than we think.
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christian
your family may have forsaken you but don't lose hope because God will always be by your side no matter what
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Mel1234
Sending you love & praying Ted. It’s a very difficult thing to have to deal with. I’m sorry to hear that you are in so much pain x
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Mary
I found your post by accident. I was looking for Scripture about loneliness for my daughter. I am so sorry Ted for all the sadness that you have expressed. I am praying for you right now and praying that your family will listen to you. May the Love of God heal your broken heart.
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We’re sorry to hear you’re struggling. You can call our prayer line at 1 (800) 835-6906 if you would like to speak to someone. You can also let us know about your prayer request here: http://www.amazingfacts.org/about-us/prayer-requests
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Lela
My daughter often tasks me she freaks empty and . I tear this whole article to her as she lays on my lap and seems to be relaxing
Thank you
Lela
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Gordon H.
Do any of these apply in the present, the here-and-now and in ways that work more than self-talk or the intellectual 'joy' about how much better things will be after we've died? Because all of these except the first one are about other people, or are disproven every day, and the first one is obsolete now that the comforter has been replaced by the Bible.
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BuckoFive
Dear Friend, the promises of God are for the here and now. We can still claim them now just as surely as could those who lived in Biblical times. His promises, His Word, His Spirit, are not obsolete.
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Gordon H.
So if the promise is left glaringly unfulfilled, you just haven't 'claimed' it hard enough?
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Hello Gordon, the Lord never promised that He would “always” answer, or promise something, in the way we think He should. Seek Him above all else.
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Bluer Mark
Thank you God and Jesus for everything you have gaven me worth more than money your love and the Universe thank you for always being by my side Love ❤️ and honour help shall always be there when needed to anyone in Danger or Struggling i shall protect everyone myself with my mind and sprit and soul this message is to tell you how much i love you Peace hopefully see u in heaven have a booze with you God and Jesus 🍻
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Steve of Corby. UK.
Please punctuate your sentences so that those that speak little English can follow the important message you’re conveying.

Thank you
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Parul
Iam very lonely, if all mighty god takes me i will be his true disciples. Please take me somewhere ican talk to some one .
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J-Paul
Im very sorry to that you are lonely Parul, you have a beatiful name, and my sure your heart is as well, I pray someone can talk with you, I know what its like to be lonely with no one around, but I do know God has NEVER given up on me in my time of need, now I walk by faith and not by site, which is very hard to do, I don't have fear, but its very hard to trust, when the darkness comes there is a Peace that shields me from the loneliness, I send to you the love he whispers in my ear, and the light he promise that soon will come, THIS TOO SHALL PASS. just remember you are NOT or never alone.
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KirkR
It's been two years since my wife, of 25 years, left me. I was completely blindsided as I believed we had a very strong, loving relationship. I left her the house and moved to a new town. I've been attending a new church but haven't made any real friends, just friendly associates. I'm so incredibly lonely. My wife moved on right away and it crushes me. I feel like I'm too old to start a new relationship. I'm just so lonely.
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Shamblin
NO. You have much to offer others. Look up. He will provide.
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Rich red
We're never too old to start a relationship, it's finding the right person I'm not into it for a relationship all I want is companionship God doesn't us too be alone.
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Ingi
That’s terrible. I’m so sorry to hear that. My husband of 12 years left me ten years ago for another woman. He married her in the blink of an eye, once the ink had dried on our divorce papers and then promptly abandoned his son and moved with this witch to a new country. I’ll never understand it and it hurts my heart to this day. I’m sorry Kirk.
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Jeff Russell
I am going thru a similar experience except our marriage was strained. This is the first time in my 61 years Ive lived alone.

I am only now discovering how broken I was and didnt really know who I was.

This painful and lonely journey provides me the chance to finally heal
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We are sorry to hear that you have been feeling hurt and lonely.  We know that Jesus understands what you are going through as He often felt lonely too.  Even though He was surrounded by people, those closest to Him did not understand His purpose.  Remember when He was in the garden and His disciples wouldn’t stay awake to pray for Him?  We’re sure that was one of His loneliest moments! Here is one of our favorite quotations that has always been of encouragement in difficult times:

“Worry is blind, and cannot discern the future; but Jesus sees the end from the beginning. In every difficulty He has His way prepared to bring relief. Our heavenly Father has a thousand ways to provide for us, of which we know nothing. Those who accept the one principle of making the service and honor of God supreme will find perplexities vanish, and a plain path before their feet.”  {Desire of Ages, p. 330}
 
The devil wants nothing more than to take our focus away from the One thing we should focus on, and he does not care how he gets us distracted. In addition to the beautiful quote from the Desire of Ages, we’d like to share these Bible verses,  Romans 8:38, 39 and Jeremiah 29:11.

If you would like to speak to someone, you can call our prayer line at 1 (800) 835-6906.
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MRS.Tina Thomas2020
Wonderful absolutely I was feeling so hopeless alone betrayed worthless and I have prayed and prayed please Lord help me to see what I need to do please show me push me in the right direction Lord I don't know what to do please hear me help me and I found these preys Thank you so much My God in Heaven Thank you
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Mark good doesn’t help
Why pray when he does nothing? What is the point I have prayed for over 2 decades and not even the answer NO. Just complete silence how am I supposed to believe in that
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Cindy
I was desperately lonely for years too. I gave up doing it my way and chose to be obedient to God. So I joined a Bible believing church and consistently signed up for Bible studies. I couldn’t have a sincere relationship with Him if I didn’t know Him or His Word. I made friends in these studies. 20 years later, I still have most of those same friends. I also had to let my guard down so others could get to know me. Please give this walk with God a try.
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Diana Keelen
What worked for me was not only praying, but repenting of my sins, reading the bible and going to church. God wants a relationship. I had to surrender myself to him.
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David T7117
Giving yourself over to God is so wonderful. I’m struggling with loneliness right now. I’ll continue to pray
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Olivermy
What i have learned is what you want is not always his will. The spouse; friends, house, finances may never come. But to get into heaven, you must lay your will down. Even iF Gods will completely blows in this lifetime. You must endure or for the breakthrough will come in HEAVEN. One day the fight will be over.
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Lisa Mcdee
Hello Mark,

God has heard your prayers. Don't loose your hope and trust in Him. I can understand how grieve your situation is, but He has assured us that, “...though it tarries, wait for it; because it will surely come, it will not tarry.”

Trust Him and trust the process!
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Courage
My brother, God speaks to us through His word, through dreams, and even through signs. If He always spoke out loud to us there would be no room for our faith.And yet still,he spoke to the heros of the bible out loud but not to many now, one because we may be too spiritually deaf to hear, and two because the experiences of the heros of the bible were given to us so that we might have hope in a God we cant see touch or hear.
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Courage
I pray that this helps
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Orlanddo
Ive been feeling like my god doesn't want to heal me. I had a stroke almost 2 years ago and still recovering i ask the lord to help but im still struggling to get back what i lost to the stroke before i always prayed and knew there wasn't anything the lord couldn't or wouldnt do but for the longest i feel the lord wants me to suffer i have sinned and i ask for forgiveness my mind and body is weak i need the lord to come and put me backe together depression is sitting in
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Cindy
I have suffered with 12-20 migraines a month for 15 years. I have prayed, my friends pray, family prays but I still get them. The medication knocks me out and I feel exhausted for a day. I tell God that I will always love and praise Him with or without healing. Some of us don’t get healed in this life but we are promised complete healing in eternity with Christ. I keep my eyes on that promise and the healing to come, now or later. Not always easy but many people don’t get healed. But we can’t lose faith or our hope in Christ. Jesus tells us this life is fleeting compared to our new life in eternity. Keep repeating God’s promises. The Holy Spirit will get you through hard days.
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Courage
My brother, God said in his word that he wishes for us to be in good health and prosper above all things! He could never want you to suffer! We must remember that the effects of the sinful world in which we live are still active. I see that you said that you believed on God and asked for forgiveness, and that is very good!
We must like Job, submit to god/to put yourself under His divine authority, obey Him, and to trust in Him especially when we do not understand.
Also like Job you may be in a season of testing. So trust in the God who said that He thinks good thoughts about you, to prosper you and to give you hope and a future;but this does not mean you will not go through the fire sometimes, it means that God Almighty is in the fire with you.
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Tandi
God has the power to heal, but sometimes he chooses not to. At first this may seem unfair, however know that God always has a reason for what he is doing. In the case of my 13 year old friend who had cancer, when she suddenly passed away after being in remission for a year, it was shocking, confusing and frustrating. I couldn’t understand why God wouldn’t heal her even when we prayed so hard for it and surely in her life she could have done wonderful things. However, after many years of reflection since her passing I have to come realize all the good things that came of it. Her sister and I became best friends as we helped each other through the grief. The testimony of her family for still trusting in God even after they lost a daughter has touched many hearts (maybe even yours) and even today my friend’s artwork is still being used in the hospitals to brighten other kids wither cancer’s day. Perhaps you will find that in your stroke, with your body failing, you still trusting God could be your own powerful testimony to bring others to God. Maybe he will use you in some other way in life or possibly death. Maybe you feel like you’re only useful if your body is strong, but this is God’s way of showing you you have value and the ability to serve him even without a strong body. Just know that God has a plan and he loves you. He sent Jesus to die for your sins and heal your spirit which was dead and that is really all you need. On earth, your body may fail but in heaven God guarantees a new body, and a life free from sadness or pain. I’m praying for you. “Trust in the Lord and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways, submit to him and he will make your paths straight.” Provers 3: 5-6
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Pertrisha Gale
thahnk you so much this has help me with everthing.
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Lowen
First of all I want to thank the Lord for His Words and those who wrote it.

It' s been the darkest years of my life honestly feel very deep sad, lonely, scared and full of fears after loosing the marriage and my little son. I was in shocked when I found out about the risks of following Jesus as we are to carry and bear our crosses. I feel so deeply sad in one hand but so thankful on the other hand knowing that I am walking on HIS track even in so much struggles and tears.

Whenever I read all those Words, perhaps some might think it's easier said than done, but it's true that we believe in somethings we don't (have not) see or even feel. But, I just want to believe in HIS Capabilities. Nothing but just believe, even when it's hard. Just keep HIS Words and Promises. All Praises be to the HIM for ever.
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Daniel Fernando Torrez, feeling àn abundance of loneliness!
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Pertrisha Gale
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My brother ,God said in isaiah 41:10 do not be afraid for He is with you always, do not be discouraged for He thinks of Himself as your God!He said that he is with you always to strengthen and uphold you with His righteous right hand. I pray that this helps.
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Marc
I just don't understand how a highly revered, good and loving God would allow me to feel lonely and unwanted. It doesn't make sense for Him to have me in a place that makes it so difficult to meet new people outside of church on sundays because of my career. Come to think of it, I don't remember ever feeling God's love, much less His presence in my life. I would love to get married and have a family, but so far it's still nothing more than an elusive dream and it upsets me like nothing else to be the one on the outside looking in. It's times like these that encourage me to identify as an agnostic type of Christian. It really is vexing having to go through life stuck and a loner.
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We are sorry to hear that you have been feeling lonely.  We know that Jesus understands what you are going through as He often felt lonely too.  Even though He was surrounded by people, those closest to Him did not understand His purpose.  Remember when He was in the garden and His disciples wouldn’t stay awake to pray for Him?  We’re sure that was one of His loneliest moments! Here is one of our favorite quotations that has always been of encouragement in difficult times:

“Worry is blind, and cannot discern the future; but Jesus sees the end from the beginning. In every difficulty He has His way prepared to bring relief. Our heavenly Father has a thousand ways to provide for us, of which we know nothing. Those who accept the one principle of making the service and honor of God supreme will find perplexities vanish, and a plain path before their feet.”  {Desire of Ages, p. 330}
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Fari
Just pray for me! For my kids! In every area of our lives, please. Am a sinner and a disappointment to God, to everyone. Please pray for me
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Alexandria
Well god hasn’t been there for me so it is what it is. Thank you so much Heavenly Father 🙏☁️
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Zoey17
I know what it feels like to feel abandon by our Lord. Yet, I came to recall He was always present. I was just so blind by Worldly pain and confusion I did not noticed Jesus was with me every step the way.
God had not left your side, He loves all His sheep and will Leave His grazing pasture of 99 to find His missing one! Matthew 18:10-14. He loves us all! John 3:16-21.

Remember, when you feel alone and cannot see Jesus beside you… God is Carrying you 😊🙏🏻
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Rob
I love life animals children and people even with all the pain I feel the world brings to me.

I looked in a mirror one day and in my head heard "where did you get your Knowledge". Believing the question came from that which made me I said openly "You" with feelings of communicating with what ( it is ) response to me was, " liar "

The pain of being openly truthful as I believed poured out anger tword this image unknown to it before.

Its resonse " ash " burn evil pig"

I've regretivly been forced to think of myself first and by even considering it now nobody will allow me to love others anymore leaving me with out purpose.

Life is not about me it's about others cause if it's about me then why would anything else exist?

I looked up the difference with dust and ash. The responce was within a page of writing from supposedly the Bible that stated and was written in this way,

What gives Dust And ash The Right to Question That Which Created IT.

How could someone who was not taught shown nor researched in knowledge of a specific ability be condemned solely by proudly expressing to what was thought to be my loving caring forgiving all powerful Entity become the focus of it's hate.

Could God not recognize me or AM I the one flaw God disposed so much that he won't claim me.

I've been overly happy for 58 years even though the tuff times,.

I come home to covid-19,. For some wyrd reason I think I am covit-19
(crazy I realize)

I get all my family back together and happy then I'm out. I had my 1st First
Easter, 4 th of July, my 58 th birthday
Halloween,. Thanksgiving,. Christmas and New Years 2023 on my own and it's making me bitter and I'm sorry easpecially since I'm okay with it. A few
good friends say "Rob you can't be good with it.". I think I am though now I question why would I even be made?.
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Helen
Look up attracts of demons and evil spirits and learn how t recognize the attacks and come agents them in the name of Jesus
Satin only attacks those he knows r near t Jesus
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Talia.
You are special. All the answers are within you. God is within you. The questions and the answers we receive are a part of the journey. Thank you for being you. God bless you 💗💗
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Kayla
❤️Thank you
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Shsh
I have certain trauma and I struggle with a near death experience that I lived and it’s been years but not a day goes by that I feel God wanted me dead. I have no one and asking me to be any other way than how Gid made me doesn’t work and if I reach out to other people it don’t work. I’m very angry at God and the disgusting sickness others have that feels they have no responsibility for their part in relationships. The same trauma keeps happening over and over its supernatural Drs have been unable to explain or help this. It’s so bizarre right down to same names . Anyways please pray for me . I want to love God and enjoy life. I can’t with this awful torcher
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Hod
I will pray for you .
“In my distress I called upon the Lord, and cried out to my God; He heard my voice from His temple, and my cry came before Him, even to His ears” (Psalm 18:6). You never have to feel that no one hears you, because your heavenly Father always hears and understands.
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Denis
I understand You and how You feel. I too AM angry and just wAnt to die some days. Be strong and keep fighting!
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Susan
Hi, I am sorry about your lost, but let me tell you, that you have admit that you need prayers, and I Believe that in the name of Jesus, something he will start doing in your life, God create you with purpose, he have designed you for big things, keep open your heart to him, read his word, by the word of God everything was create , find a bible read Isaias 41:13,deutoronomy31:6 Isaias 54:10 Mateo 28:20, trust in him with all your heart!!! God bless u
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We’re sorry to hear you’re struggling. You can call our prayer line at 1 (800) 835-6906 if you would like to speak to someone. You can also let us know about your prayer request here: http://www.amazingfacts.org/about-us/prayer-requests One thing we can know for sure, is that God will never want you dead! You are His beloved child! The devil will always try to separate you from God, but God will always be working to bring you closer to Himself. The Bible tells us, "Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.  Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you."  James 4:7, 8.  This is the most proven formula for deliverance from evil. The main part of your effort should be focused on drawing near to God and submitting to Him.  Then you will gain the strength you need,.  When we commit ourselves fully to the Lord, He grants us His protective power through His grace.  John 10: 28, 29 gives us a wonderful promise.  The truth of the matter is that you did turn your life over to Christ, your salvation is secure in Him, and He is right by your side with more love and compassion than you can imagine, when your life is secure in Christ, there is nothing the devil can do to you. We encourage you listen to this message "Defeating Demons, Devils, and Evil Sprits" : https://www.amazingfacts.org/media-library/media/e/2546/t/defeating-demons--devils--and-evil-spirits
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Clam
Read Isaiah chapter 40
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Clam
Get rid of that anger toward God and things should become a lot better. Being angry with God means that you want to be in control
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Shsh
Not only do I feel God wanted me dead but I can’t get ahead financially and 30 years later I’m filing bankruptcy. I can’t get medical treatment I can’t have anyone around me as a friend they’re takin away. If I try to go to school or volunteer I’m stopped. It is very serious I feel like even though people kept me alive God took me and I was done than.
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Tawny Malone
Stop the ANTs (automatic negative thoughts) everyone around you wasn't taken away from you to hurt you, even though it may feel that way, maybe they were struggling or suffering with something of their own, or maybe it was just their time and God needed to take them. The more you tell yourself that it's just you, the more you will see things around you happening and just see it that way. Financially, everybody is struggling, not just you, everybody has been affected by that in some way lately, also, there is nothing wrong with filing bankruptcy, it is your right to do so and you are entitled to a fresh start, just like everyone else, your credit will take a hit for a bit, but creditors will see it as you have no other debts, it may anger a few people off, find a new dentist, I know this because I have been there,you are not the only one to do this, some people don't even feel bad or guilty. I had a friend once who ran up half a million in credit card debt, lived off of it, had lots of nice things, better than we did for sure and they made sure we knew it, but the plan was to file bankruptcy. Now that, is taking advantage! find a support group to go to, you will find many people who feel the way you do and it is helpful to see that you are not the only one. You are a good person and the more you see it from that angle, the more you will see that bad things happen to good people, and good things do happen to you, just feels like a lot and it's hard to see the good when you get hit with a lot at once, but once you stop focusing on the bad things, you will see. Please don't blame God, it he wants you, he will take you to a beautiful place where there is no pain. He only has good intentions, if you want someone to blame, it's the devil. you can change a lot by stopping the ANTs.
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Helen
Some times the hard time r there t draw u closer t god just search the answer t every question u have via the bible and not by the world
A lot of people go though tough times I'm with u on that Hun x
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Shsh
Do you think this means I should surrender to just existing and not doing. I do I can’t do anything anyways it’s like I’m dead. And it makes me think if that scripture about being caught up in the clouds during revelations and I think that’s me. But wow it’s not codusive to life.😕
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Tawny Malone
Bad idea! Never surrender! if you stop existing, not doing, you become a mooch, you will get depressed because you aren't getting anything out of your life, it gets worse and worse until it consumes you. I became 100% agoraphobic. little by little, you stop doing things and then look up and you you have nothing. I was working at home, but 100% in charge of how many patients I would see. My favorite days were days I had no one at all, but I felt better on the days I got up, showered and saw people, did something, talked to people, helped people. My husband doesn't talk to me. It has taken me 2 years to come out of it you have nothing to fulfill yourself with. Find a new position that you are passionate about, go back to school to do what you have always really wanted to do, whatever it takes. When you have a job that is rewarding, helping others, it means everything. I got myself a job that is very close to home, set my hours to work around my narcolepsy and appointments for counseling and twice weekly ketamine (now FDA approved for treatment for chronic, treatment resistant depression, it's real) injections that helped me feel so much better emotionally right away from my very first shot, no more debilitating, random thoughts all the time, no more anxiety, I highly recommend it! Getting out of the house and away from my husband neglect, I became fulfilled daily with compliments from my patients, support from colleagues, showered and got dressed in more than sweats everyday, started tackling the tough issues one at a time and have been able to set proper boundaries, even pushing my boundaries at times. It is possible to come out of feeling dead, but it took some time to get that way, takes work to come out. God doesn't want you dead or he would take you, so you need to make your time worth it. It takes work, can be done!
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Evelyn
I want to kno what it is..my friend and i finished praying for ny problems im going through..after a while 3mouses is infront of me..sitting position..already dead..lm evelyn davids..
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Tawny Malone
That could happen to anyone at anytime, don' link those 2 events together, it was just a fluke that it happened at the same time.
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Holly
I have been alone most of my life but especially the past 20 years. I need to find work now at 69 and have had difficult obstacles along the way. When I was in the hospital 4 months ago due to an attack of pancreatitis, I said to myself it would be okay if the Lord took me home then and there. but he didn't. I have yet to know God's plan for my life.
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frank
My wife died sixteen years ago.I am 76 very lonely without her one day goes into the next holidays are very depressing that i just want to go to bed.I think to myself is there all there is till i die.I really need God's help.
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Melinda02
Frank, many people feel this way after losing a loved one, but this normally gets easier over time. Have you considered reaching out to your GP for medication and or grief counseling?
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Tonilo
Hi, my name is Toni. My story is definitely not of any faults of my own. I have been through more things in my life started out as a young child than any person could dream or heard of.I am a generally kind person a loving person and very much respectful to myself and others. It so much I can say about my situation.But right now, I am not in the best mood right now. But, I know Jehovah is the Truth he has always been here for me. I just need to know whatever I bring to him about what I am experiencing. I hope he is not angry with me when I speak out to him he does not hold a grudge. Do not want to lose him in my life. I have really been holding things inside of me but, sometimes I need to scream and just let go. I don’t know how he feels about that.I never believed in BlackMagic. But their are bad people out there that practice it. I know Jehovah will expose these people and I hope I get to see it. They have done to much damaged to me and my family. Thanks, for listening!!
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Jessica'sArmy
Hello,

I sure had quite the experience over old age but it really is a scary place in hell or heaven so it is god bless us to soul sleeping being dead when we turn to dust like that for really doing dead sleeping. I think its cool we do get to turn into dust physically our bodies because he will gather us from when the dust came unto it being forthbringing of the breathe of life. There is no need to panic when we go like that so the supernatural was kept a secret and thats fine but its Jesus and Mary that gives us a chance for eternity according to the book psalms.

Jessica Ann
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Eric merrifield
I request prayer for my mom and myself I really need help I'm tired of feeling this way don't know what to do please help
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Laron Collins
Good afternoon. I requesting prayer for going into the ministry full time and Lord willing that God will blessing me to reach out to others through God's ministry that God has blessed me with to plant the seed and allow the Holy Spirit to take care of the rest. I am asking God to allow the Holy Spirit to touch others to hear the Three Angels Messages.
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Phil
you know what's funny, we think we know the answers. We'll be able to figure it out ,it just may take time. But as I've got older, God is the one who directing the show. He knows all, and having Faith will always lead back to Him. I'm a sinner for sure, but God created myself for a purpose. I'm kind hearted, selfless and have given a lot of time elsewhere. At times I feel my fate is near, but I know who holds the keys..I will lean on prayer to ease my mind..Amen..I'm basically grappling with something internally..its not an illegal type of thing at all
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Emmanuel
Sometimes i find myself wanting to talk to a specific someone because of this loneliness, and then I get a feelings they don’t want to listen to me speak shall it be that I’m annoying to them, I don’t know. But I face to my god and then I suddenly start to cheer up I start to feel better about myself.
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Claire
Okay firstly, as believers, we have an adversary who aims to make you feel abandoned and as if you are alone, through spiritual warfare, in addition to batling loneliness in the flesh. That's a lie. You aren't alone as God told us
Deut 31:8 ' I will never leave you or forsake you'
I've been alone all my life in one way or another. Even with family around me, I had to stand with the truth and spea up rather than be complici tin the gaslighting they attempted to shut me up and stop me speaking the truth. I've attempted suicide in despair in my early 20s, due to trauma from being an abuse survivor. I know I probably will never get married (53) now, and I have had to grieve not having my own family, as I still battle with the effects of being a survivor but God has made me thrive in many other ways.
At the moment, i'm struggling with feeling that God is just gonna let me fall. Its all part of the flesh - our emotions and/or spiritual warfare - but we have to perservere and trust God, regardless of circumstances.
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Lulu
I am alone. Divorced and I am 67 years old. Suffering from several health conditions, living in senior housing that is currently substandard, and sometimes feel overwhelmed with the responsibility of being guardian of my adult daughter diagnosed with autism. Can you offer some encouragement?
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Hello Lulu, it truly is wonderful that you are reaching out to others as you go this difficult time. The devil will try to isolate us and make us feel alone. He will use every tactic and remind us of every little thing the can possibly get to us. Yet God lovingly reminds us that He never leaves us, we are never truly alone. You are not alone, but we do hear what you are saying. Here are some of His promises for when the devil assails you: https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Bible-Verses-About-I-Will-Never-Leave-You-Nor-Forsake-You/
We also understand the overwhelming feelings you must go through when caring for your daughter. Here are some wonderful, and encouraging verses to read, claim, and recite when the load is unbearable: https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Bible-Verses-About-Cast-Your-Cares/

And lastly, but certainly not least, claim these, God’s amazing promises for you, Jeremiah 29:11, Romans 8:18-39, and John 3:16. God bless and keep you, you are in our thoughts and prayers.
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Mitch
My crush pushed me away because she has commitment issues even though we both love each other. My mum is also ignoring me and treating me like I'm not her kid anymore. I just feel so alone right now.
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Sophiya
I lost my husband recently...there nobody to talk to me in real heart....i am feeling extremely lonely.....how will i spend my whole life without him
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Please accept my condolences.But do not be sad my sister, hope to meet him in heaven when God returns. And if not so to live with Father in eternal joy forever more in that city four square. You must believe Father when He says that He wants you to cast your anxiety on him. Why? Not because he wants you to hurt again but because He cares! If you continue to give your sadness or loneliness to Him in faith He will remove it from you.
When I get to heaven I want to meet you; and according to God's just judgement your husband.
There is hope in God's thoughts toward you.😊
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Pamila Philips
Sorry to hear about this... we all are there for you.. praying for your strength
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Dbryce
Am sorry dear the almighty father gonna be always there for you so worry nothing and pray about everything ok
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Dbryce
Am sorry dear the almighty father gonna be always there for you so worry nothing and pray about everything ok
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Marie
Hey Sophiya. I'm sorry to hear about your husband's departure... I couldn't begin to fathom how you are feeling, yet I know the feeling of losing someone whom you have know for a long time. I know that feeling is not an easy feeling to shake. I at times have been going through small storms and it seemed that no one understood or even cared to understand just how I feel. My prayers are with you m sister. I pray that in time you will rise above this grief and happiness will find your life again. I know that's what you husband would have wanted for you. I also pray that the Most High will send a good friend in your life that you will be able to talk to and turn to when you need someone to listen and show you that they care. Just know that you will be in my daily prayers. Stay blessed and safe and never give up. You happiness is on the horizon!
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Jessica
Oh, Sophiya! Elizabeth Elliot wrote a book I believe called “lonelines”. She lost two husbands, and She gives some steps for getting through the worst days. Praying you find a community of single woman on The same path do you can walk together for a season.
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Norm
If everyone had God truly in their hearts God could relax
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Who cares
My mom is paranoid schizophrenic and I never knew my father.

My Foster parents divorced when I was 12 and things steadily went down hill.

I found myself homeless and a pariah around 16

My my foster mom passed away a year or two ago and I have found myself a transient worker for years now.

Sometimes all I want is to feel loved and accepted amongst society or anywhere but the world fills me with anger and hatred for how people act towards me, including how my own “family” abandoned me at such a young age.
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We are sorry to hear that you have been feeling hurt and lonely.  We know that Jesus understands what you are going through as He often felt lonely too.  Even though He was surrounded by people, those closest to Him did not understand His purpose.  Remember when He was in the garden and His disciples wouldn’t stay awake to pray for Him?  We’re sure that was one of His loneliest moments! Here is one of our favorite quotations that has always been of encouragement in difficult times:

“Worry is blind, and cannot discern the future; but Jesus sees the end from the beginning. In every difficulty He has His way prepared to bring relief. Our heavenly Father has a thousand ways to provide for us, of which we know nothing. Those who accept the one principle of making the service and honor of God supreme will find perplexities vanish, and a plain path before their feet.”  {Desire of Ages, p. 330}
 
The devil wants nothing more than to take our focus away from the One thing we should focus on, and he does not care how he gets us distracted. In addition to the beautiful quote from the Desire of Ages, we’d like to share these Bible verses,  Romans 8:38, 39 and Jeremiah 29:11.  We also invite you to check our our two free booklets: Alone in the Crowd: https://www.amazingfacts.org/media-library/book/e/9/t/alone-in-the-crowd and Determining the Will of God: https://www.amazingfacts.org/media-library/book/e/24/t/determining-the-will-of-god
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Julian better known as chef Julian
Hello my name is Julian and I was reading the extraordinary Bible verses that you sent on my phone I'm absolutely happy and joyful when I read this kind of scriptures and how you explain them thank you so much I want to be here anymore I enjoy it God bless have a great night
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Debra
I am humble encourager for God! I don't understand why do people treat me like garbage? I have a mental health disorder and have PTSD! My whole life of being discrimination against my mental health disorder. Everyone needs to be more understanding and kindness and treated with respect who has been feeling treated less favorable that is very cruelty! I understand that God has given me a lot to see more exposure dealing with the wrong people in my life God is my only one who knows my heart that is a blessing to feel God's love!
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Sophiya
I understand your pain as i have gone through pain
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Ks
I feel for you because im going through the same thing..but mine is even worst..so take heart....because God is sustaining me so will he
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Sharon
God all my life I feel I've been good to people and fair and I've been nothing but hurt and left alone all alone I'm 67 years old and I'm so lonely I really don't want to be in a relationship but I really don't want to be alone either that I've always wanted to be close to you but I just never seem to have been quite there I don't know I don't know God please be with me hear my prayers and show me away
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Justyna
i can relate to your feelings and thoughts and I pray the same for myself, in Jesus Name.
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We are sorry to hear that you have been feeling hurt and lonely.  We know that Jesus understands what you are going through as He often felt lonely too.  Even though He was surrounded by people, those closest to Him did not understand His purpose.  Remember when He was in the garden and His disciples wouldn’t stay awake to pray for Him?  We’re sure that was one of His loneliest moments! Here is one of our favorite quotations that has always been of encouragement in difficult times:

“Worry is blind, and cannot discern the future; but Jesus sees the end from the beginning. In every difficulty He has His way prepared to bring relief. Our heavenly Father has a thousand ways to provide for us, of which we know nothing. Those who accept the one principle of making the service and honor of God supreme will find perplexities vanish, and a plain path before their feet.”  {Desire of Ages, p. 330}
 
The devil wants nothing more than to take our focus away from the One thing we should focus on, and he does not care how he gets us distracted. In addition to the beautiful quote from the Desire of Ages, we’d like to share these Bible verses,  Romans 8:38, 39 and Jeremiah 29:11.  We also invite you to check our our two free booklets: Alone in the Crowd: https://www.amazingfacts.org/media-library/book/e/9/t/alone-in-the-crowd and Determining the Will of God: https://www.amazingfacts.org/media-library/book/e/24/t/determining-the-will-of-god
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Michael
God spoke too once told me my people need me i dont feel that way anymore.
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Traci
Thank you for these truths. I am feeling so lonely and abandoned. My whole life, people I love and trust die or abandon me. I am 56 and have no one in this world. Life is scary and lonely. I pray I can have a hope to live instead of an attitude of being one day closer to dying. I want to be in a loving committed relationship but God refuses to allow it. It makes me angry. Please change my heart.
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Kathy
My life seems similar to yours. Im lonely and feel frustrated with God because I wanted a family of my own or even just a loving husband. I tried so hard, got out and met people, active in my community and yet I am 57 and alone. Im sorry for your sorrow. I feel it too.
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We are sorry to hear that you have been feeling hurt and lonely.  We know that Jesus understands what you are going through as He often felt lonely too.  Even though He was surrounded by people, those closest to Him did not understand His purpose.  Remember when He was in the garden and His disciples wouldn’t stay awake to pray for Him?  We’re sure that was one of His loneliest moments! Here is one of our favorite quotations that has always been of encouragement in difficult times:

“Worry is blind, and cannot discern the future; but Jesus sees the end from the beginning. In every difficulty He has His way prepared to bring relief. Our heavenly Father has a thousand ways to provide for us, of which we know nothing. Those who accept the one principle of making the service and honor of God supreme will find perplexities vanish, and a plain path before their feet.”  {Desire of Ages, p. 330}
 
The devil wants nothing more than to take our focus away from the One thing we should focus on, and he does not care how he gets us distracted. In addition to the beautiful quote from the Desire of Ages, we’d like to share these Bible verses,  Romans 8:38, 39 and Jeremiah 29:11.  We also invite you to check our our two free booklets: Alone in the Crowd: https://www.amazingfacts.org/media-library/book/e/9/t/alone-in-the-crowd and Determining the Will of God: https://www.amazingfacts.org/media-library/book/e/24/t/determining-the-will-of-god
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Laurie
thank you for giving the verses that help me get through my day.
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Precious
Thank you 😭😭😭😭💔💔💔♥️♥️♥️ Atleast I'm healed
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Thank you for such comforting words when indeed need
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Jan
Yes i promise
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Darlene
This is reassuring that God is forever present..
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Ngoty
Please pray for me am a woman pastor, doing a ministry in a heavy Muslim area.Am sigle pray for God to bless me with a good partner who we can do life together and serve the Lord together. Am dealing with loneliness which leads me into discouragement.Thank you for the scriptures you put here bless me a lot

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Courage
Do not worry my sister, you are not alone.At many times I feel that I need partner for life ,along side jesus of course. Many times this led me to depression. But we must not forget that God cares. 1 peter 5:7. Father wishes for you to marry. And not just anyone, but a true man who will stand under his heavenly father though the heavens fall! You must have faith, both in God's ability to bring your desires to pass, but also that His choices can be trusted even when they don't make sense.😊
I hope this helps
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Sophiya
My God,. Lord please give her godly partner as early as possible so that she will not feel lonely.
I can totally understand the feeling of lonliness
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Separated from the other 99
Although these scriptures are true, how do they bring comfort? I pray for hours on end. I read everything I can to try to feel God, yet all I feel is sad, empty, hated, and alone. Where is my peace and comfort? where is my companion? I'm ready to give up and end it all. I can take no more. Relief must come quickly else I will have to bring myself. I'm down to hours. It is all too much to carry
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Justyna
personally they bring me some comfort because of the care they represent (or the ones I focused on that helped me).
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Tammy
You remind me of me. When I feel this way I can't get out of bed or face the day. The thought of trying anything is overwelming. I think it's because I'm burnt out. I don't realise how bad it is until I crash. Give yourself a break. Stay in bed for a while. Drink some water if you can get to the sink. The wierd thing is how quickly I feel a moment to closeness to God out of the blue. Why can I feel so despirate one moment and grace shows up like that? I don't know. It changes everything in an instant. He was there the whole time. I was looking at my troubles instead of Him or something. The moment I rested He steps in line of sight to get my attention. Rest sweety.
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You WILL make it!!
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Israel, one of the sons of God
The devil or tempter is in you now. Pray the devil flees from you. Resist the devil and his temptations or hers. Dont test the lord God! God cannot be mocked. Never stick your fist out to God the father of us all. His plate is full enough with saving the lost and sick, if you love God honestly and seek him with a pure heart he will save you instantly. Those who ask receive, those who seek find, the devil tempted jesus when he was in the desert fasting for 40 days and 40 nights and he ate nothing. The devil made up verses that were not in the bible! Trying to get jesus to jump off a high temple and kill himself but jesus knew enough of the bible from reading it and he quoted actual scripture to the tempter the devil and couldnt convince him to kill himself. The devil lied and said to jesus, the lord god says if you jump off this high temple god will send his angels to catch you so not even your feet will touch the ground. Jesus replied even though he hadnt ate or drank for weeks he still honored God and wasnt stupid enough to listen to the evil spirit satan and replied it is said in scripture do not put the Lord God to the test. He then took him to a higher mountain and showed him all the kingdoms and things thereof and said this is all mine i can give it all to you, if you bow down and worship me. Jesus again replied to satan and said Away from me, Satan! For it is written: ‘Worship the Lord your God, and serve him only. Then the devil left him,and angels came and attended him.

So you must not allow evil thoughts to enter your mind or evil feelings in your heart to get the best if you. Do not allow satan to destroy your God given life! Do not be overcome by evil! Overcome evil by doing good! The BOOK OF JOB says: ( God will not cast out a perfect person, nor will he help the evil doer. Until he fill thy mouth with laughter and thy lips with rejoicing. They that hate thee will be clothed in shame. )
All i can say is resist the devil and he will flee from you.
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We are saddened to hear that you suffer from a burden too heavy to bear further and have reached a point where you feel there are no other options.  Please know that there are!  Not only are God’s promises there to strengthen you, there are many avenues of varying types of help. He loves you with a deeper love than you can even imagine, and wants to give you “abundance of life”. Sometimes our feelings can seem overwhelming, but no matter what your emotions are telling you, the truth is that God has a definite place and work for you to do in this life.  Cling to Him in your moments of depression, and He will carry you through.  Psalms 23 is your personal assurance that the Good Shepherd will never let you down. When you are suffering, remember that you are not alone.  Jesus is there, at that very moment, and He has the most intimate intuition as to exactly what you are feeling.  Remember, there is no plight that we face that Jesus did not also encounter while on earth. Don’t forget, you are deeply loved by our Father in Heaven! Please call our Prayer Line at 800-835-6906 to speak to someone and discuss your struggles and receive encouragement. Also, we encourage you to call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800-273-8255.
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We are sorry to hear that you have been feeling so lonely.  We know that Jesus understands what you are going through as He often felt lonely too.  Even though He was surrounded by people, those closest to Him did not understand His purpose.  Remember when He was in the garden and His disciples wouldn’t stay awake to pray for Him?  We’re sure that was one of His loneliest moments! Here is one of our favorite quotations that has always been of encouragement in difficult times:

“Worry is blind, and cannot discern the future; but Jesus sees the end from the beginning. In every difficulty He has His way prepared to bring relief. Our heavenly Father has a thousand ways to provide for us, of which we know nothing. Those who accept the one principle of making the service and honor of God supreme will find perplexities vanish, and a plain path before their feet.”  {Desire of Ages, p. 330}
 
The devil wants nothing more than to take our focus away from the One thing we should focus on, and he does not care how he gets us distracted. In addition to the beautiful quote from the Desire of Ages, we’d like to share these Bible verses,  Romans 8:38, 39 and Jeremiah 29:11.  We also invite you to check our our two free booklets: Alone in the Crowd: https://www.amazingfacts.org/media-library/book/e/9/t/alone-in-the-crowd and Determining the Will of God: https://www.amazingfacts.org/media-library/book/e/24/t/determining-the-will-of-god
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Michelle
May God continue to use you to uplift other as we go through another year of unknown
God bless you and all your readers
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Michelle
My prayer group and I were uplifted the scriptures and comments
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Joy Hillhouse
My name is Joy Hillhouse iI have had a bad stroke in hospital since August 16 please pray for me that God will,keep my faith strong and help me to recover.
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Lord Jesus in YOUR NAME JESUS
RESTORE Her with
YOUR COMPLETE HEALING
Psalms 103:3
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Addie
I have been through a tough couple of weeks. I have been losing friends and have been left out a lot recently. I put so much effort into making other people feel loved because I know how it feels to be lonely and I don’t want other people to feel that. I put on a fake happy face and pretend to be this funny, confident person though I feel so lonely that nobody notices and tries to make me feel included. People in middle school are so selfish and mean I just can’t stand it and just want to cry. My only real friend is Jesus. Though I have been super lonely recently, I have never been so close to God. I am constantly finding myself praying or reading the Bible. I know he is working in my life even when I don’t see it. God is a way maker. If God can bring light to a dark world than he can bring light to a dark season.
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Happypug
This is the most beautiful thing I heard. You are truly a beautiful person. I wish I could find friends like you. You Matter and so does your life to God.
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I understand totally
how You feel.
I believe that the Lord has
HIS Hand upon You in
a Profound way for
Using You in ways You may not yet know
In HIS earthly Kingdom.
HE is Training You behind scenes
as HE takes You THRU
the Refiner’s Furnace.
It is NOT Fun
Yet when one has the deep desire
to Only want HIM HIS WAY
to be Obedient to HIM
No matter the cost
HE takes us up on it
And all I can say is:
OUCH!!!!!!!!!
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We are sorry to hear that you have been feeling hurt and lonely.  We know that Jesus understands what you are going through as He often felt lonely too.  Even though He was surrounded by people, those closest to Him did not understand His purpose.  Remember when He was in the garden and His disciples wouldn’t stay awake to pray for Him?  We’re sure that was one of His loneliest moments! Here is one of our favorite quotations that has always been of encouragement in difficult times:

“Worry is blind, and cannot discern the future; but Jesus sees the end from the beginning. In every difficulty He has His way prepared to bring relief. Our heavenly Father has a thousand ways to provide for us, of which we know nothing. Those who accept the one principle of making the service and honor of God supreme will find perplexities vanish, and a plain path before their feet.”  {Desire of Ages, p. 330}

You can always call our prayer line at 1 (800) 835-6906 if you would like to speak to someone.
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Carole
These verses are so uplifting, I thank God for His love, care and concern for us. I need You Lord God.
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Kerri
I live alone after my fiance started using meth and heroin. I lived in my car. Then I was at a motel. I got my own apartment in January but I'm alone and have no friends or family. I keep getting sick and this makes me feel even more afraid to be alone. My lease is up in January but I can no longer afford the bills. I'm facing living in my car again and it's so hard in the winter. I've suffered from severe anxiety since 2004. I'm afraid something bad will happen to me
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We’re sorry to hear you’re struggling. You can call our prayer line at 1 (800) 835-6906 if you would like to speak to someone. You can also let us know about your prayer request here: http://www.amazingfacts.org/about-us/prayer-requests We also encourage you to connect with a crisis line that can better help you. You can text using this one: https://www.crisistextline.org/ or you can also Google search for a local crisis hotline you can call in your state or city. Please use the resources available to find some help!
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Pam
I too, have felt intense loneliness throughout life. I realize many people grow up with horrendous abuse, but I do believe mine was on the worse end of the spectrum. It has given me a feeling of being adrift in my own body, despite being a Christian. I became born-again at the age of 13. I knew for sure I was going to heaven, etc. I have had many, many setbacks but I have always prayed, read my bible, and tried to share my faith when appropriate. But I have intense feelings of loneliness and many times, feel as God has abandoned me. I don't want to be self-centered, I want to be others-centered, but I cannot deny these horrible, awful lonely and anxious feelings. Please pray for me that God will once again, let me know HE TRULY loves me and understands. And please pray that my husband and I will find some like-minded Sabbath keeping Christians in our area. Thank you, Amazing Facts and Pastor Doug for helping me to learn so much about God's Word and helping me to grow in Him. God Bless.
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We are sorry to hear that you have been feeling hurt and lonely. We know that Jesus understands what you are going through as He often felt lonely too. Even though He was surrounded by people, those closest to Him did not understand His purpose. Remember when He was in the garden and His disciples wouldn’t stay awake to pray for Him? We’re sure that was one of His loneliest moments! Here is one of our favorite quotations that has always been of encouragement in difficult times:

“Worry is blind, and cannot discern the future; but Jesus sees the end from the beginning. In every difficulty He has His way prepared to bring relief. Our heavenly Father has a thousand ways to provide for us, of which we know nothing. Those who accept the one principle of making the service and honor of God supreme will find perplexities vanish, and a plain path before their feet.” {Desire of Ages, p. 330}

The devil wants nothing more than to take our focus away from the One thing we should focus on, and he does not care how he gets us distracted. In addition to the beautiful quote from the Desire of Ages, we’d like to share these Bible verses, Romans 8:38, 39 and Jeremiah 29:11. We also invite you to check out our free booklet: Alone in the Crowd: https://www.amazingfacts.org/media-library/book/e/9/t/alone-in-the-crowd

We’d love to pray for you! Let our prayer team at Amazing Facts know about your prayer request by writing us here: http://www.amazingfacts.org/about-us/prayer-requests
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Mike
I just don't get it, I cry out for God to help, I pray for him to fill me with his spirit, I beg him to help, I promise to trust him and to give my life according to his will. I feel nothing but hurt and loneliness. Maybe I am just not meant to be happy or loved, am I here to just be used? I have always done everything for people all my life, I put aside my own dreams and goals to give my wife, parents, and kids everything I can, I have done things for people always putting myself aside for them, I have given up jobs, careers, and life goals for them, I thought this was what a Godly life was to be, giving for others and putting yourself aside. Now I need help and I hurt but no one seems to care, I still only get calls from parents and "friends" when they want something or need my help, even my own father asked me to help move my aunt to her new home, she is alone with no one else so of course I said yes, when I got there no one else was there, when I called they all said they were busy, even my dad who lined everything up, My youngest son and I were the only ones there to move her, this is just one example. I cry out to God to fill me so I can feel his presence and not be alone, ask for him to let me know his will so I can do it and be obedient to him, Nothing from him either, am I that unimportant that even an all loving God doesn't love me, Billy Graham said that even if I was the only person on earth Jesus would have died for me, I don't want to sound like I don't believe that but if he won't let me know his will when I ask how can I believe I am important enough to die for without asking him to?
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Mike -

He, the One, is with you and he will never forsake you. Don't look at yourself and all you have done. Look only to Jesus Christ and trust in Him. Dig deep into the Bible, especially the Book of Job. I have stage 4 cancer, and believe or not, these days are the best days of my 66 years. I am no longer in charge, Christ is. I no longer try to understand why this and why that. My friend, just read, read, read, and put your trust in the Lord God Almighty. The Holy Spirit is within you. Keep the Faith. Your on my prayer list Mike. God Bless you. Joe
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Israel, one of the sons of God
After 18 years old i found out your on your own to make yourself happy. No one is going out of there way to mke a grown up feel better about themselves. I think if we truely read the bible. It says to not ever stop giving to charity work. The work never ends. But Maybe you need to stop doing charity work for the same peopla & find other people who are looking for what you have to offer so that you can feel the way you want to feel. You have to realize as we tirelessely get older and live in the same body and say and hear and do the same things over and over we get tired and want something more and new. Well there are ton of different countries to visit. You could be a teacher for k through 9th grade and help them out and maybe one of those younger people could be thankful for you and what you have to offer them. You have to find out what your truely wanting and missing and be honest with yourself and make that your goal to achieve. If we wait on other people to say and do things we want as adults. You will always be left disappointed. When i was child i thought like a child. You have to stop thinking and acting like a child. Maybe you have a child in you still and your needing to grow up and realize life either revolves around you or it doesnt. I own livestock, and The sheep love when i feed them i can see they are thankful whey their done eating. The pigs eat and then want to kill me they arent thankful ever they leave me disappointed so i know how you feel. You want to be thanked and recognized for it. So just understand some verses in the bible say dont cast your pearls to swine or give to the dogs whats holy because they will turn around and bite you or trample your valueables and leave them worthless. Spend your time helping those who need it and who will be thankful. Bless you and hope you see to it God sees what you do and knows what you need before you ask him. He gives and he takes he blesses us and sends rain on both the good and the evil. Wait on the Lord
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Tricia
Don't you see? God was working through YOU all those times you were in the service of others. He is ALWAYS THERE WITH YOU. You just have to believe it. You just need to realize you're worth it.
God gave you the ability to empathize and to give and to sacrifice for others. Those are tremendous gifts, to be so much like Him! Many are too weak or blind to be capable of such giving of oneself for others.
It's okay to feel sorry for yourself, but do not dwell there. Doing the will of God keeps you close to Him. People may fall short, but God never does. I really can relate to everything youve stated. I will pray you feel His Love. God bless, brother.
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Mike I feel your pain; can relate. We cant just serve to serve ; just checking off the boxes of our daily life checklist; to be a good person. We need to fuel ourselves our soul more in Gods word. Reading the bible, SOAPING daily. Know Jesus; building a stronger bond with him bring happiness; sense of fulfillment. I believe when i am feeling lonely its because I didn't spend enough quality time reading the word of God , listening to worship music and praying.
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Happypug
I read the bible, and worhsip music and reading the word of God which is nice and well, but you cannot do it all the day long to feel good.

I wish i had a really good friend. Maybe one who would understand me. that is all I need. I don't know. Maybe someday I will feel less lonely.
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We are sorry to hear that you have been feeling hurt and lonely.  We know that Jesus understands what you are going through as He often felt lonely too.  Even though He was surrounded by people, those closest to Him did not understand His purpose.  Remember when He was in the garden and His disciples wouldn’t stay awake to pray for Him?  We’re sure that was one of His loneliest moments! Here is one of our favorite quotations that has always been of encouragement in difficult times:

“Worry is blind, and cannot discern the future; but Jesus sees the end from the beginning. In every difficulty He has His way prepared to bring relief. Our heavenly Father has a thousand ways to provide for us, of which we know nothing. Those who accept the one principle of making the service and honor of God supreme will find perplexities vanish, and a plain path before their feet.”  {Desire of Ages, p. 330}
 
The devil wants nothing more than to take our focus away from the One thing we should focus on, and he does not care how he gets us distracted. In addition to the beautiful quote from the Desire of Ages, we’d like to share these Bible verses,  Romans 8:38, 39 and Jeremiah 29:11.  We also invite you to check our our two free booklets: Alone in the Crowd: https://www.amazingfacts.org/media-library/book/e/9/t/alone-in-the-crowd and Determining the Will of God: https://www.amazingfacts.org/media-library/book/e/24/t/determining-the-will-of-god
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Mick
I feel that I'm not the only one to think or say this, I can be surrounded by, people, or even family, & still feel Lonley
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Evidelia
Yes. Feeling lonely...I was so comforted by Isaiah 54:10. Thanks for reminding me this promise.
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Ronnie
The Bible teaches that God is the God of all comfort, Jesus knows our times of weakness and our secrete sorrows that so weighs us down. He walked the path of all manner of emotional pains, being our high priest he's touched with all our bitters yet without sin! Oh to humble ourselves under the mighty hand of God, wait patiently for him to prepare us for being lifted up so we can see the beauty of the Lord smiling upon us on the king's highway to heaven, indeed a very present help in our time of need.
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Steven Eull
How I could help to take people out from evil
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Diane
God bless you for theses messages sent from God to my soul in time of need.
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Lucy
Hello Gary
I understand and have felt the same way in one time in my life. My experience and advice is dont stop praying,God hears ur prayers. Ask and u Shall receive, but remember its all in his timing. Reason why he doesnt respond as quickly as we would like, is hes preparing us for our next journey. He sees u raising ur two children alone, he wants to focus more on yourself , children and always put God first. No looking back at how people hurt you, he sees that too, every hurtful act towards you is a HUGE BLESSING COMING TOWARDS YOU! He wants you to focus on him always, there is no tribulation he wont get u through. Its through your faith in him he wants u to focus on. Your ex is just that, your ex her sins are hers and for God to handle. Dont focus on what she did, focus on how stronger you will become. He has something greater for you, one day you will look back and say thats why I went through that. Remember we cant change anyone, only ourselves, with God everything is possible. Im a living miracle of where I was and where I am now. I give him all the GLORY! Its never where we start, its where we finish. Pray always with all ur heart.
My day begins with prayer and ends with prayer. Ask him for wisdom,confidence, courage, and healing to be able to raise ur beautiful children with a faithful loving heart. I know u think ur ex has prospered and thinking about it is the devil wanting you to focus on so u can be always in anxiety, anger, and resentment. Try hard to forgive her, and start to live for u and ur kids only. Thats wat matters, every time ur thinking hes not answering ur prayers, always think patience in his timing and hopeful with many blessings he will place upon you. Build your foundation with his word everday.
God bless you Gary
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I don't feel God's presence despite my constant prayer.
My family prospers who hates God and I struggle in squalor.
My adultering ex wife remarried and prospered.
I raised our two children alone.
Why am I forsaken.
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FreedomKelly
Well Gary…just to know you are not alone in your feelings. I have gone through the same experiences, at least some of them, that you have….I pray several times a day and have surrendered to Jesus….yet I am alone…the people around me who have chosen to turn their backs on God are prospering and happy it seems…..I have gotten kicked out of school (as I chose Trust, Faith, and God….and now having a very hard time….no partners, no friends that follow Christ…..some days good, other days, like today, very low.
Sending you energetic hugs and hope for joyous days and peace.
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Essa
There’s a Psalm I remember when the wicked prosper. Psalm 73. If I want to know how to prosper the way God wants in a world where I live as a stranger, I look at Gods definition of prosper and how Paul spoke about tribulations. When hard times come it’s time to step up and be loyal to God. We do not know who will be drawn to God by such acts of obedience. As you’ve noticed in the world people who hate God are prosperous in earthly ways but calamity strikes them suddenly... Their prosperity is always earthly, ours is heavenly. Remind yourself of the Kingdom, not the earth, it shall pass. No earthly prosperity is worth living without God for eternity. Be honest to yourself and God. Jesus said intent matters when we pray. He said seek Me and you will find me. Are you seeking what the ungodly have or Him? Keep praying. I don’t feel His presence the way I would love to feel it yet He answers my prayers. I would love to see Him face to face, but He presents Himself in many ways. Through people, His word, dreams, as a soft breeze, as a voice, etc.
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Leena Chaudhary
Right I feel the same sometimes. My family is not also with me. I'm also raising my little daughter alone.

Oh God!! If you are here and there then please help everyone in theirs bad.
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Hello Gary, first we want to share a little encouragement, and then a couple of resources. Feeling is not always what we should rely on, often the enemy will encourage feelings of isolation. Rather, the Lord longs for us to fully rely on Him and what we know for certain about Him and His loving character. Jeremiah 29:11

This life will be fraught with many things that seem unfair. Live each day for the life and kingdom to come, see Romans 8:18-23.

Here are some wonderful resources to refocus and re-center when you feel alone or separated from God.
Never Alone: https://www.amazingfacts.org/media-library/media/e/20563/t/never-alone

Here a few of His promises: https://www.amazingfacts.org/news-and-features/news/item/id/12018/t/9-bible-promises-for-when-you-re-feeling-lonely
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shellonabeach
I don’t envy a life of a godless person who worldly prospers. It’s a trick to believe their own ways pay and ‘who needs God?’ This provides a false sense of security and living for this life only.
Struggle has drawn me closer to God, to rely on Him and not what I see. I am therefore thankful for struggle, without it I’d be still on a sinful path. God sees a big picture in our lives, whereas we only see the signature. This saying helps when the journey gets tough…
‘For some, this world is the only heaven they’ll know. For others, the only hell.’
Keep going :)
One day it will all make sense.
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Mike M.
I have been feeling very lonely and I even dropped back into sin for a day. My wife moved out a month ago. Part of this stems from my addiction years ago that also turned out that I have CPTSD. My anxiety has been driving her crazy because she has trauma, too, and my actions contributed more to it due to loss of trust. I have been so lonely without her, and I haven't been feeling God's presence very often, likely due to my sin. I have confessed and repented, and I am so saddened that I hurt my wife again. Our separation was meant for our healing, and my abandonment and rejection issues led me down a hole instead of getting better the past week. I have been afraid for three years that we will end up getting divorced. I also fear that my sin has contributed to her falling away in her faith and she is exploring other "paths" even though she still believes in God. I want to get over this loneliness so I can fully heal. I want my marriage and the relationship with my wife to be healed. It feels so cold now, and I have been devastated. I really want to be in God's presence and to truly feel the comfort of the Holy Spirit, but I feel lost. I don't feel his presence much even though I see evidence of his kindness at times, and I am thankful for those. I really wish God could whisk me away from all this pain and suffering. Preferably healing for my wife and myself would be best. Thank you for these verses. I really hope I my unbelief will cease.
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Essa
It’s horrible... But sin does do this. Our behavior influences other people, that’s what makes sin so dangerous. However, great news. There’s a wide counselor, a friend, an advocate, a merciful God who knows your heart completely. Keep going to Him, more and more. He heals the brokenhearted! Some healing takes more time than we’d wish to. But while waiting keep praying, worshipping and doing all in His name. He has not left you, he wants you near Him. Jesus said if you believe I can, it’s possible. Put every worry you have in His hands. Dare yourself to get uncomfortable while getting closer to God. See how He can transform your life with faith as big as a mustard seed. I hope all works out 🌸
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GaryZeeee1234
I'm sorry for your pain, Mike
I want God to reveal His love to you.
In Jesus name.
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Matthew/Lori Bowden
My wife left me a few weeks ago, i was and i am hurt, but i do have caring family. I know we have had troubbles over the past 7 years of our marriage, she would lie to me on a daily basis, she smokes pot every chance she gets, i have been sober for over 8 years, she has left me 2 times before we married, each time something good has happened in my life, i gave up drinking, let god into my heart, very close to my family, and her mom(which upsets her) i started going back to church, God has been good to me, i dont know if she will ever come back, i pray she finds her way in to Gods life, her life wasnt the greatest, but she doesnt seem to know she has to make it happy, i pray daily she finds Gods help, my name is Matthew Bowden, and hers is Lori Bowden(mcgregor/harris, please pray for us, we need them badly, thank you.
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Rita
I pray that the covenat keeping God will come with His Spirit and touch all you lonely peole now,
I pray that the love of Jesus will inspire you all to reach out to someone lonley and that ot will make you feel better… two lonelies maybe will turn out in one big friendship
Love you all
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Zamone sells
It's true feeling alone when you have people surrounding you Is true you can still feel alone I'm experiencing it at this present time and with all that's going on makes it no better im a true believer in God i need to draw closer to him and have that spiritual relationship with him i know that i should not be feeling alone and unable to sleep on a. regular basis I pray for comfort and peace of mind patience and a closer relationship with Almighty God I have my babies to look after they depend on me gotta get myself right !!!
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SW
Nice I love this I will start using it
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Kay
I've never been in a relationship of any knid really. I've been isolated because of my mental illness. I struggle with this overwhelming nothingness and I've always been alone. My family doesn't understand so they tend to distance themselves. I just feel so alone.
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Happypug
I feel you Kay. Although there are times I do feel happiness, I do feel lonelieness so I do get sad. and yes mental illness hs distanced me from others. I wish it wasn't this way. I do not have children and chosen not to because i have mental illlness and so do my two brothers who do not have children either.
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Kay you’re special and loved 🌸
Hi Kay! As a person who’s struggled with suicidal thoughts and tendencies since early childhood years til my 18th (baptism), I can tell you that the only one who makes me get up and live is Jesus. People can make you feel lonely or leave you but He won’t. He stays if you just want that. He knows that your pain, he loves and cares for you in all your seasons in life. You’re not nothing and that feeling is not the truth about you. You’re precious, unique, special, beautiful and above all LOVED. I sincerely hope you will get to feel His love soon and it will override any loneliness you feel. 🌸
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Rachel
I feel the exact same way
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Marsha
Thank you for this # of support. I will use it.
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Rose Mokhatla
I started feeling sick when i was 17years old.I'm turning 21this year and i'm still home doing nothing.I dropped out of school because i couldn't attend because of my illness..Its been 4years now and everytime i feel like things are coming around,they just fall apart and I lose the hope that i'll ever be okay and be like others and go back to being normal.Right now i'm full of jealousy..it just happens because i see people my age getting successful everyday but am hear doing nothing and nothing is working for me..I need help,i need God i need to feel his presence and i need for this jealousy to go away because this is not how i was raised or taught.I'm not at peace,i feel lonely even when i'm surrounded by people who love me,am always so sad lately.
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Kimg
Hello Rose, I read this inspirational message in a daily devotional book and thought I'd share with you, hope it helps.

 "Thank Me for the conditions that are requiring you to be still.  Do not spoil these quiet hours be wishing them away, waiting impatiently to be active again.  Some of the greatest works in My kingdom have been done from sickbeds and prison cells.  Instead of resenting the limitations of a weakened body, search for My way in the midst of these very circumstances.  Limitations can be liberating when your strongest desire is living close to Me.
 Quietness and trust enhance your awareness of My Presence with you.  Do not despise these simple ways of serving Me.  Although you feel cut off from the activity of the world, your quiet trust makes a powerful statement in the spiritual realms.  My Strength and Power show themselves most effective in weakness.
Zechariah 2:13; Isaiah 30:15; 2 Corinthians 12:0 AMP"
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Justina
All glory and honour to God of widows

Justina
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John
Im 27 yrs old.. Never been a long term/serious relationship before.
They always turned me down when i thought it would be better. Im always faithful to Gods word trying to keep myself pure before marriage, but hey that right person for me never seemed to exist which i often leaves me feeling lonely, worthless.. I need help thanks.. Godbless
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Stu
Well your only 27, you are still very young. I am 20 years older and I am the same. Yet I pray that God will bless you. No matter what happens God will never give up on you.
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Sandrina
Hi John,

When the time comes, the right woman will come.

In the meantime, prepare yourself to be the best husband you can. Invest in yourself spiritually, academically, socially. Perfect those skills and talents God gave you and find new ways to serve Him. Cultivate great friendships, find the right career mentors who can help open new doors to you. Find new ways to volunteer and help others.

Believe it or not, you're still young. There's no race to marriage. But being on the path that God has set out for you will surely put you in the right place, at the right time. Just seek Him and the opportunity will meet with your preparation.
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candice
I know it might sound like a cliche but TRUST God, you are still young and his timing is not like ours....Ive loved and Ive lost, I lost a 20 yr friendship I thought this man was my friend .....you are NEVER worthless!!
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Elijah
Elijah
I'm 12 yrs old and in the 6th grade. I'm currently struggling with feeling sorta lonely and that no one loves me. and OFC you know that Jesus is returning and so I just feel rushed/lonely/quick to go to God. And I really don't know why I'm feeling like this. I think it's the spirit of loneliness that's in my heart or something, and on the other hand, the return of Jesus is bothering me because I have not been saved yet, and am worried about this whole return of Jesus and that is why I feel lonely/without hope and happiness and joy and laughter. I FEEL BROKEN AND CRUSHED SOME SORT OF WAY IN THE SPIRIT.
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Terry77
Sweet Elijah, you're absolutely a beloved child of the living God. Jesus loved children with all His heart, and He loves you and sees your pain.
Just thank Him every day and say, "Lord Jesus, I love You and I need You. Please take care of me, my family, friends and remove my pain and loneliness. Amen".
Bless you.
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candice
Seek God Elijah, you are never to young, God loves you !! pray to him and pour out your heart to him he knows all about us and whats best for us
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Kitty
Do you believe in Jesus? That he died on the cross for you? To be saved is to tell him that you are sorry for your sins, and you believe he died for you and loves you. I admire your young brain seeking him because you will
Certainly find him. He is joyous at your seeking of him! He wants personal relationship with you Elijah and his love for you is more than you will ever humanely understand. God bless you darling
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Ron
God bless you in Lord Jesus Christ name
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Ashley
Give your heart to Jesus and let him know your pain. He cares and will eventually wipe every tear away.
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Haley
In 9th grade I was sent to ale which separated me from my class,(I was in another building) which they made sure to keep us away from the other students, in 10th grade I was still in ale and I talked to literally no one in that class for about 6 months, I dropped out because I found myself being extremely lonely with little to no friends at all and no one to talk to, a year later I don’t have my ged nor do I hang out with people or have friends, the loneliness still finds its way to creep in at times, it’s not like I feel this way everyday day but the feeling is still very much there if that makes since, my home life is physically really hard and I feel stuck in a very weird situation. I just ask for prayers to keep me full of strength and hope in better days to come please
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pris
Haley, I feel for you. I understand your loneliness and feelings of inadequacy. I have been right where you are right now. You are special. God has a plan for your life just as he does for me and everybody else. As far as your academic goals it is not the end. When you feel up to it, you can take classes to get your GED. I know someone who did this in her thirties. She then went to college. The prospects are great for we. We all have something to contribute to the world including you. I do not know the nature of your difficulty at home but know that you can seek the help of a counselor to talk you through your challenges .and help you overcome them. Meanwhile, The ever-loving Jesus is on your side. He loves you implicitly and wants the best for you. In addition to seeing a counselor, share your struggles with jesus. Talk to him like you would your best friend, openly and honestly. Pour out how you feel to him. Remember that he has numbered the hairs on your head and notices when one strand falls off. He knew you even before you were conceived. Your name is engraved in the palm of his hand. He loves you and wants you to be well and happy. I will pray that you find healthy supportive friends to encourage and love you while you deal with this. I have never met you but my heart goes out to you.
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Kitty
You are never alone! I am sorry you feel so lonely and have had to deal with high school lonely. Jesus is and will always be the best friend you will ever have. I certainly believe this is true. Praying for you to feel fulfilled and satisfied and for God to put the right people in your life to fill that lonely void.
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Keith
Help please text me I'm really depressed and struggling
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Tanyaradzwa
I have been struggling for months now with some sin
I always backslide and I am not happy bcz of that
I wanna follow Jesus with all my heart and life
... I am facing many challenges in my life as a college student
I feel lonely at school because I don't engage with other students... I pray to God to have freinds but I am struggling. .. not
Just that but bt bad things have been happening .. sometimes I feel like it's punishment bcz of my sinful past . I want to be happy bt I CN never happy for a long time . . Please help
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Tanya,
There is not a single sinless person living on this earth. The Christian life consist of daily commitment to God. We'll make mistakes along the way but we need to go back to God, seek forgiveness and know that we are forgiven. The same being that entices us to sin is the same one who tells you that now that you have sinned God has nothing to do with you. That is Satan's lie. Remember Mary Magdalene? Jesus' response to her was "neither do I condemn you, go and sin no more. He also did not condemn the women at the well. He offered her a better alternative to the life she was leading and left the choice up to her. Achieving perfection as stated n the Bible requires daily sacrifice, daily re-committing our lives to God. God wants us to live a guiltless life. In order to do so we need to understand that he loves us and wants the best for us. he understands your struggles. He knows you feel guilt and possibly despair about your relationship with him. He right now is reaching out to you with open arms. He does not condemn you but is longing for you to trust that he loves you enough to help you overcome your challenges.
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candice
sometimes God seperates us for his purpose and to get closer to him, he said in his word hes married to the backslider, we all have sinned and come short but God wont give up on us his mercy endures forever
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Kitty
Well even though we sin God is there to forgive and it’s just taking small steps towards our strive to be like Jesus. God really loves us we are his children if your especially new in Christ I was told that as a mother you don’t condemn your toddler for mistakes and wrong doings but gently redirect them to the right path and that’s essentially our Heavenly Father although we may get the time out corner and that is and has certainly been very true for me.

Your so loved
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Rr
I'm an pastor kid but I always feel alone my sister has church friends sometimes I just cry 😭 alone. I always wants to intercat but no one's interested they're always busy while my sister is laughing with my church friends I just pretend that I'm doing something in my phone.
Pray for me😭😭😭😭😭 praying 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
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Keith
My name is Keith and I'm struggling with singleness and brken relationships
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Mikeg
Rr. God knows your pain and wants not for you to feel alone. Please know that the spiritual attack is always upon us. Remember that evil always wants to take what is valuable. You are a God's excellent creation, the fact that you reached out here is amazing. Promise my you will speak with your parents and feel no shame to be open as it is your truth right now. Your hurting and pain needs to be in loving hands that will let you know that you are NOT alone. Being the child of a pastor cannot be easy so be bold and talk with someone that is willing to listen. God bless.
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Liv
I've been struggling for a couple of weeks now. I haven't had hardly any face to face interaction since the pandemic that started in March 2020. My only friend, well I thought was my friend doesn't even let me go see her because of the pandemic even though she goes and sees other friends of hers. Overall, I've just been sitting at home alone every single day, doing college work all day and praying but I don't know how to be happy again. I talk to the Lord everyday about how he's my only friend but I can't get out of this depressing rut that all I do is cry all the time and I'm tired of it. I don't want to cry anymore but I can't stop.
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Happypug
God bless you Liv. Sorry to hear about your lonelieness and hope you get better and know that the Good Lord loves you so much.
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Rr
Praying 🙏🙏🙏🙏 we have the same huhuhuhuhu
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Chris
Oh, Liv, I know exactly what you're going through. I'm praying for you, sister. I've been struggling with the same thing of crying every day. My boyfriend broke up with me last fall & it really hurts. I totally get the loneliness you feel, the seclusion. I've been dealing with hellish issues since 2019. I tell you, there is nothing more uplifting than getting into God's loving word with a church family. Cling to God no matter what. I write this right after bawling my eyes out & crying out to God myself, but I PROMISE you, God's way is so much better than our way. There is no other way to go. I've been plulled from the cold, dark waters to be thrown in the fire. God is working on you and I through this pain. We will come out stronger & better than before. Keep hoping! Keep praying, always praying! Keep begging if you have to! Just. Don't. Quit. God's got you in the perfect place. I promise. He loves you.
From one hopeful college student to another, I'll be praying for you.
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Happypug
Chris I love what you said. It's been and uplifting thing what you said. God bless you always and amy you never feel lonely.
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Taylor
Hello Liv, I am also in the same situation since Covid. I am sorry to read about your pain and your feelings of abandonment. I have been a Christian for 50 years now, I am 59 years old. Your friend in Christ, Taylor
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Monzello (DJ Morretti)
A little over two years ago, I was taken advantage of by a co-worker. I saw many red flags, but I ignored them because I liked her so much. She seemed like the perfect woman. Treated me nice initially before I ever displayed my interest in dating her. She was leaving for Tyler, TX to continue school in her field. I never thought she would friend zone me and turn on me the way she did after all the times I was there for her. I've always been honest about everything she asked of me and after quitting jobs(because I know my worth) she used information against me. She even tried to throw me on her friend, which was a low blow because we have supposed to have been dating. To this day, I still struggle as to why I am not able to get over this let alone her. I pray about it over and over. I have no support regarding the hurt. I feel alone all of the time. No one to turn to. That experience to this day brings me to a dark place with people as a whole. No family support. No one to call. I needed this. Thank You.
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Karlene
I live with my 2children an 3 grand children,they all have their agenda ,I am the only Christian in the house .
Their are times like today I have to cry out to God I am so lonely an depressed,I am supposed to get married ,but because of the pandemic (state where he lives is closed ) our lives is put on hold .I am so sad
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Brian
I can relate I am the only Christian in my family, My wife cheated I divorce her, And the world we live in today I can’t find a good Christian woman, The loneliness is really starting to eat me up. But I know God has a plan for me.
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Stella
Hold on God will do the rest for the best. He says be still and know that I am God
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Di
So incredibly thankful for all of God's beautiful promises.
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frank
At one point in my life I had a great relationship with God, I would pray daily and God would speak to me, in that small still voice, it was the best years of my life, but then I fell away from church, prayers, working for God through the church I was a member of, and because I was offended I walked away from God, soon was back doing the worldly things, and now after 32 year relationship, my one true love and best friend, who also was the mother of our children pass away Sept, 30 2020, no one but God knows my pain and loniness, I feel at lost, empty, lonely, and bitter, I know God is my helper, and that he loves me, but I am having a hard time trying to come back to God, and only God can restore me, so pray for me, and any advice will be appreciated
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candice
God said he is near the brokenhearted so hes right there with you even thru the pain!! he's gonna restore you and you are gonna be stronger and wiser grief is natural and it takes time, prayer, and hope...never lose hope and faith in GOD, we can leave GOD but he;s never gonna leaves us he loves us unconditionally sometimes it hard to forgive ourselves